“No crying in
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Field Hockey, Football...
Pro Ambitions newsletter
October 22, 2009
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I
want to share a personal story about youth sports
and a conversation I had on the way home from soccer
practice with my 7th grade daughter, Alexa and niece,
Molly who I coach. I told them about my up and down road
as a youth hockey player growing up in Bedford, NH playing
for the Manchester Flames. This story may sound familiar
to what is going on in many of your homes this fall.
Alexa is a forward gifted with wheels
and speed-she is a goal scorer. Molly is what I call
a mule(a defenseman like myself) and a journeyman athlete.
She is a gifted tenacious athlete born with an athletic
build and a killer instinct. They were expressing to
me their upset of being “demoted” from the “A” team to
the “B” team as this is the first year they are mixed
with eighth graders. Most of the team is made up of eighth
graders with a few seventh graders chosen that will hopefully
crack the line up. I explained to them that this scenario
sounded all too familiar to me as this was my same path
as a youth athlete and currently as being my profession
running my own camps and tryouts for youth organizations.
There is always a component of town politics and rite
of passage of being the older grade or age on a mixed
aged level team. My explanation to them was that things
happen for a a reason and is many times can be a blessing
in disguise. They will have a better growth year and
have more playing time to hone their skills. It is not
advantageous to be on an upper level team if you are
going to “ride the pine” and sit on the bench. You are
better off with more playing time so you don’t have a
wasted season for growth.
If you are fortunate to be a top
pick and will crack the line up as the younger player
in a 7th/8th grade team or a first or second year squirt
that is entirely a different story. Advice to campers
and parents-take your hits, and let the cream rise to
the top. All those years I was up and down from “A” teams
to “B” teams myself I never imagined I would go on to
play Division One Hockey, play in the NHL, have my idol
Ray Bourque as my defensive partner, coach and write
curriculums for my own youth hockey outfit that has grown
to the largest outfit in the world. In closing…..put
your hard hat on and get to work kids. Good things will
happen. Swallow your pride and consider yourself welcomed
into the wonderful world of athletics.
The greatest athletes in the world
have all been there. Let’s talk about our hometown hero-New
England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady. He was a back
up quarterback in college and for the Pats until Drew
Bledsoe fell to injury. Tom stood up and stole his job,
and will now go on to be one of the greatest quarterbacks
in the history of the game.
Sincerely,
Jeff

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